So here I do a small categorization of most of us using the similarities. It's obvious that me myself would fall into one or more but I'll be unbiased as much as I can. Look here, have you met someone with some hidden agenda? then there's your friends with benefits, instant friends, that good at everything fellow, the payback master, a cheap disaster, over sensitive, too immature, pretend to be immature, click collector, that guy who minds his own business, the don't care personality, those no talk misfits and so much more that I can keep on going. These are what makes us diverse and still gives us the feeling that our social research is not yet complete. I've picked up the nonsense attitudes as they are the most fun to discuss but as we know this only makes 50% of the whole picture, the other half? Obviously overflows with goodness!
Hidden agenda has a secret plan or a target to be precise that is being executed step by step. This attitude comes as an unknown character and identify what needs to be achieved. Then weaves the master plan to be executed and get it done over a period of time. Bless those who unknowingly come across this one's way only to be long gone before even getting the glimpse of what's happening.
Here we have the friends with benefits who will be there by your side as long as you got something to offer to them. Just be that loser and these will be miles away. These are quite commonly found and I've seen the other way round as well, the click collector and the click seeker who offer something to get people around and who offer something to be around some certain people. It's quite exciting to watch these attitudes behave because their intentions are obvious and publicly exposed at some point.
Then we have instant friends, those we knew in stone age and accidentally meet at a function in digital age. This might get disastrous if they are the only known people to each other there. They eat together, drink together, they are the bff's, just to be long forgotten on the next day. It's quite a funny theory though.
So there's this good at everything attitude. He's been the BOND until someone seems to be creeping in his turf. Then starts the battle for supremacy, often won by our protagonist, benefiting from his strong roots in the turf.
The payback master is quite a pain and often seen in most places. This attitude is self explanatory, you get a return for whatever you do to this person good or bad and mind you, they have a huge memory capacity, using much bigger than Einstein, remembering every small detail. A common question would be "you did this that day at that time with them, there! You wore this, you ate this, you spent this much, you said this bla bla bla".
The no talk misfits are so unfortunate. They get labelled with different names, "innocent", "egomaniac", "silent" and some more. They miss chances, they get forgotten, quite unfortunate indeed. A very similar person in line is the too immature misfit who usually manage only a single conversation with any person. His best friend is always, another too immature misfit!
The pretend to be immature attitude is quite hard to coop with as we have no idea when or to how much extent they behave immaturely or not. Some of them usually have split personality, being immature and normal time to time.
Cheap disaster is a disaster in itself. It's hard to go somewhere when we have this attitude and come without losing your wallet. Money matters are always hard to deal with. Quite selfish and speaks cheaply.
Over sensitive is quite complicated as they always expect a level of trust and get attached. They easily get depressed.
"Mind my business" attitude comes on time, gets whatever things that needs to be done, then leaves on time. Their interactions and involvements are limited and usually quite boring figures.
Don't care personality is very interesting to observe as they usually do and then think. Their minds are are clean and usually becomes victims of verbal attacks, takes other's blames or end up being the bad person. They forget things quickly, starts the day fresh and keep on being don't care.
As a post script, I would like to add that it all comes down to being situational at the end. We cannot be that single person all the time. Even Robots behave much better than that! Still these are not factors to be judgmental or to decide upon. Like someone said, no one is perfect, there's always a huge good part like the "Sun" than the minor ugly part like the "Moon", but most of the time if you just look, the Moon eclipses the Sun, but if you see through, there's the beautiful Sun glowing brightly behind the Moon. Alas, how that small Moon manage to cover the Sun and trick our eyes!
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